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In 20+ years of being catcalled I have never had anyone else confront the harasser or ask me if I was ok. Not even once. If the person cat-calling was with a posse often times they would participate or laugh at their friend's bravery. Barf. I have been followed for blocks by men asking me … Continue reading Guess Who Is Not Wearing A Safety Pin?
With over 800 hate crimes reported since Trump won the election, with no one else to look after us because, let’s face it, the coworkers, relatives, and friends who justify their voting Trump with "not all Trump voters want to electrocute LGBTS, are KKK members or hate Jews," won’t lift a finger to protect us, … Continue reading Surviving Trump: Safety and Self-Defense Tips
Last week everyone I know and I had a collective mental breakdown. At first no one could believe that Trump won the election. Then we couldn’t believe people we knew made it possible. We cried. We couldn’t sleep. We were literally sick. We overate. We overdrank. We overfucked. We overslept. We called our exes. We … Continue reading Surviving Trump: Self-Care Tips
A harmless fuckboi is someone that somewhat IDs as a butch/stone butch/stud or within the queer masculine spectrum (whatever that means) who you call for good butch cock knowing that's all you want. The fuckboi one needs to stay away from is that who: - prides themselves on not being a fuckboi but behaves like … Continue reading A Fuckboi Is A Fuckboi Is A Fuckboi Is A Fuckboi