Sorry to disappoint anyone expecting to read something deep like this. I’m stuck in the subway on my way to fotw’s pondering about lesbian erasure and our willing participation as a group. I’m thinking about lesbian profiles allegedly created by and for lesbians on insta and other social media platforms. It’s disappointing and disheartening to … More Lesbian Erasure
1. Femmes be crazy. 2. To never ever go to a supermarket at 3:00 pm on a SuperBowl weekend Saturday. 3. Some bridges were meant to be burned…with matches… and gasoline…and Molotov cocktails being throw… and nuclear warheads. 4. Being single is a sound relationship choice. 5. There’s nothing sadder than a 54 years old … More 40 Things I Learned Last Year
I’m not one to ever ask for help, but when it comes to my friends I guess I can do things I never knew I could. Pat is one of my dearest and oldest friends in the butch femme community. They were hit by a car right before Thanksgiving. We have set up a GoFundMe … More Pat Maher’s Recovery Fund
Four weeks ago I started singing It’s the most wonderful time of the year to myself 24/7. Soon after my inner All I want for Christmas Mariah wannabe emerged. I was happy, strolling around the city in cute dresses, even managed to go out in heels some nights, feeling proud of myself for handling the … More The Most Wonderful Time Of The Year. Really?
Dear butches who ask femmes out on dates using the word “date,” touch base during the week/days prior to the date, plan a great evening and dress accordingly, are on time or give us a heads up if you get stuck in traffic, pick us up from home or the subway entrance (sometimes with flowers, … More The Long Lost Art Of Dating