Freshly out of a what should we call it and ready to mingle me, a couple of weeks ago I bought a yearly subscription for the Butch Femme Matchmaker and am also on Tinder. I haven’t revamped my Butch Femme Matchmaker profile yet as my laptop died and am still working on new photos. But … More Tinder: I’m Doing It Wrong
If, like Yours Truly, this year you haven’t started shopping yet, here are some ideas for all budgets: – flowers – a gift set of their favorite poison (Tito’s, Jameson, Bacardi Silver, London Dry, etc.) – a handwritten love letter – a nice shirt, belt or wallet from Zara or Banana Republic – cufflinks, socks … More Last Minute Valentine’s Day Gifts For Butches
1. Femmes be crazy. 2. To never ever go to a supermarket at 3:00 pm on a SuperBowl weekend Saturday. 3. Some bridges were meant to be burned…with matches… and gasoline…and Molotov cocktails being throw… and nuclear warheads. 4. Being single is a sound relationship choice. 5. There’s nothing sadder than a 54 years old … More 40 Things I Learned Last Year
I’m not one to ever ask for help, but when it comes to my friends I guess I can do things I never knew I could. Pat is one of my dearest and oldest friends in the butch femme community. They were hit by a car right before Thanksgiving. We have set up a GoFundMe … More Pat Maher’s Recovery Fund
Four weeks ago I started singing It’s the most wonderful time of the year to myself 24/7. Soon after my inner All I want for Christmas Mariah wannabe emerged. I was happy, strolling around the city in cute dresses, even managed to go out in heels some nights, feeling proud of myself for handling the … More The Most Wonderful Time Of The Year. Really?
A Femme in NYC 