Following My Own Advice


In case you haven’t noticed, I’m on the fast track to becoming a single crazy old cat lady. Around this time every year the token butch acquaintance proposes doing things together. Brunches, fundraising walks in Central Park or Chelsea Piers, free Pride events, Pride weekend parties and after parties, fireworks on the 4th of July, … More Following My Own Advice

Butch Femme Dictionary


A very sui generis Butch Femme dictionary of all things butch femme compiled with help from friends, books, well-known butch/femme websites, Wikipedia, Facebook, twitter, and other sources. New terms will be added as I come across them or make them up (seriously, who had heard/read of “fotw” before meeting me?). Badonkadonk: the nodding movement a … More Butch Femme Dictionary