10 Things Not To Say To the Butch You Are Dating


– Yes, my ex was 20,000 times better in bed and in every other aspect than you. Oh if I had a dollar for each time a butch has compared herself to one of my exes. After a while, reassuring them gets boring and tiring and you feel tempted to give in and say something … More 10 Things Not To Say To the Butch You Are Dating

Lesbian Erasure


Sorry to disappoint anyone expecting to read something deep like this. I’m stuck in the subway on my way to fotw’s pondering about lesbian erasure and our willing participation as a group. I’m thinking about lesbian profiles allegedly created by and for lesbians on insta and other social media platforms. It’s disappointing and disheartening to … More Lesbian Erasure