I'm not one to ever ask for help, but when it comes to my friends I guess I can do things I never knew I could. Pat is one of my dearest and oldest friends in the butch femme community. They were hit by a car right before Thanksgiving. We have set up a GoFundMe … Continue reading Pat Maher’s Recovery Fund
Four weeks ago I started singing It's the most wonderful time of the year to myself 24/7. Soon after my inner All I want for Christmas Mariah wannabe emerged. I was happy, strolling around the city in cute dresses, even managed to go out in heels some nights, feeling proud of myself for handling the … Continue reading The Most Wonderful Time Of The Year. Really?
Amy Whinehouse: Back to Black Amy Whinehouse: Tears Dry On Their Own Big Bad Voodoo Daddy: Why Me? Blondie: Call Me Blondie: Heart of Glass Britney Spears: Toxic Cher: Strong Enough Foals: A Knife In The Ocean Gotye: Somebody That I Used To Know Hoku: Perfect Day Joss Stone: You Had Me Kelly Clarkson: Since … Continue reading Side Chick Blues Playlist
TITLE: Side Chick Blues AUTHOR: María Lapachet AUTHOR URL: http://www.marialapachet.com GENRE/THEME: Butch/Femme Erotica PUBLISHER: Cordoba Books EXCERPT RATING: MA DESCRIPTION: María Lapachet's poetry chapbook “Side Chick Blues” cuts like a grainy 16mm short film of ferocious need and burning love doused in a hot tub of fresh blood, yet breathing loud. She howls, "I want … Continue reading Side Chick Blues
Dear butches who ask femmes out on dates using the word “date,” touch base during the week/days prior to the date, plan a great evening and dress accordingly, are on time or give us a heads up if you get stuck in traffic, pick us up from home or the subway entrance (sometimes with flowers, … Continue reading The Long Lost Art Of Dating