Last Minute Valentine’s Day Gifts For Butches

If, like Yours Truly, this year you haven't started shopping yet, here are some ideas for all budgets: - flowers - a gift set of their favorite poison (Tito's, Jameson, Bacardi Silver, London Dry, etc.) - a handwritten love letter - a nice shirt, belt or wallet from Zara or Banana Republic - cufflinks, socks …

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40 Things I Learned Last Year

1. Femmes be crazy. 2. To never ever go to a supermarket at 3:00 pm on a SuperBowl weekend Saturday. 3. Some bridges were meant to be burned…with matches… and gasoline…and Molotov cocktails being throw… and nuclear warheads. 4. Being single is a sound relationship choice. 5. There's nothing sadder than a 54 years old …

Pat Maher’s Recovery Fund

I'm not one to ever ask for help, but when it comes to my friends I guess I can do things I never knew I could. Pat is one of my dearest and oldest friends in the butch femme community. They were hit by a car right before Thanksgiving. We have set up a GoFundMe …

The Most Wonderful Time Of The Year. Really?

Four weeks ago I started singing It's the most wonderful time of the year to myself 24/7. Soon after my inner All I want for Christmas Mariah wannabe emerged. I was happy, strolling around the city in cute dresses, even managed to go out in heels some nights, feeling proud of myself for handling the …

Side Chick Blues Playlist

Amy Whinehouse: Back to Black Amy Whinehouse: Tears Dry On Their Own Big Bad Voodoo Daddy: Why Me? Blondie: Call Me Blondie: Heart of Glass Britney Spears: Toxic Cher: Strong Enough Foals: A Knife In The Ocean Gotye: Somebody That I Used To Know Hoku: Perfect Day Joss Stone: You Had Me Kelly Clarkson: Since …