– If you ID as a butch or a femme, you are marginalizing and oppressing other lesbians. – If you are a femme who doesn’t date or sleep with transmen, you are marginalizing and oppressing them (aka a TERF). – IDing as a butch of a femme means you want to perpetuate heterosexual stereotypes about lesbians … More Widespread Stereotypes And Misconceptions About Butches And Femmes